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Caregivers Need Care Too: Tips on Managing Caregiver Stress

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Stress-management exercise such as yoga or tai-chi, which teach inner balance and relaxation, are helpful for caregivers.

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"That 20 minute walk in the fresh air with my best friend was just what I needed."

"At lunch I turn off my phone and email and shut the door. Then I close my eyes and enjoy the quiet for 15 minutes. It's wonderful."

Just 15-20 minutes here and there each day when you can focus on yourself will make a world of difference in managing your caregiver stress.  According to a new Home Instead survey, 55 percent  of the family caregivers that eventually employed their professional caregiving services appeared to have above average or significant levels of stress as they came on board. But it doesn't have to be that way.

These tips are recommended while taking care of an aging loved one:

  • Work out: Exercise and enjoy something you like to do (walking, dancing, biking, running, swimming, etc.) for a minimum of 20 minutes at least three times per week. Consider learning a stress-management exercise such as yoga or tai-chi, which teach inner balance and relaxation.
  • Meditate: Sit still and breathe deeply with your mind as "quiet" as possible whenever things feel like they are moving too quickly or you are feeling overwhelmed by your responsibilities as a caregiver. Many times you will feel like you don't even have a minute to yourself, but it's important to walk away and to take that minute.
  • Ask for help: According to a national survey by Home Instead of adults who are currently providing care for an aging loved one, 72 percent do so without any outside help. To avoid burnout and stress, you can enlist the help of other family members and friends, and/or consider hiring a professional non-medical caregiver for assistance. There is no need to feel guilty for reaching out.
  • Take a break: Make arrangements for any necessary fill-in help (family, friends, volunteers or professional caregivers). Take single days or even a week's vacation. And when you're away, stay away. Talk about different things, read that book you haven't been able to get to, take naps, whatever relaxes you and makes you happy.
  • Eat well: Eat plenty of fresh fruits, vegetables, proteins, including nuts and beans, and whole grains. Indulging in caffeine, fast food and sugar as quick "pick-me-ups" also produce a quick "let-down."
  • Keep your medical appointments: Make sure you get your annual check-up. Being a caregiver provides many excuses for skipping your necessary check-ups, but don't do it. A healthy you is worth more to your aging loved one than a sick, weak you.
  • Indulge: Treat yourself to a foot massage, manicure, nice dinner out or a concert to take yourself away from the situation and to reward yourself for the wonderful care you are providing to your aging relative. You shouldn't feel guilty about wanting to feel good.
  • Support: Find a local caregiver support group. They will help you understand that what you are feeling and experiencing is normal. This is a place to get practical advice from people who are in your situation and to bounce off those feelings of stress, since everyone is likely to be in the same situation and can empathize.

As Virginia Morris puts it in her book, How to Care for Aging Parents, it's important for you to take part in "indulgent necessities." Everyone needs some pampering occasionally, for both physical and mental health. So don't feel guilty if you treat yourself once in a deserve it and you need it.

Last revised: April 11, 2010

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Thoughts and stories from others
  1. November 21, 2019 at 11:54 pm | Posted by Arthur

    Caregivers are always trying to go the extra mile for the client. This can be physically and emotionally draining


  2. July 23, 2019 at 4:16 pm | Posted by Ronald Hayes

    Caregiving is a very complex job flaring with a lot of emotions. Practicing breathing, relaxation, calmness and stress relievers while on the job will be very useful. Example for me is music, for others may be a stressball, stretching, meditation, referring to family members or images of lost loved ones to use as motivation on your hard days.


  3. July 19, 2019 at 6:29 pm | Posted by Tes

    As a caregiver is not easy.


  4. July 19, 2019 at 6:27 pm | Posted by Tes

    As a caregiver long patience and not easy to take care of the client.


  5. June 19, 2019 at 2:05 pm | Posted by Mia

    Just having to deal with hired caregivers could be stressful at times.


  6. June 19, 2019 at 2:03 pm | Posted by Mia

    Just having to deal with hired caregivers can be really stressful.


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