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The Importance of a Health Care Power of Attorney

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A health care power of attorney, also called a health care proxy or a durable power of attorney for health care, helps protect your loved one's end-of-life wishes.

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What is a Health Care Power of Attorney?

"Having tubes and ventilators keeping me alive at age 93 is no way to live. If I ever end up like that, please pull the plug!" Have you ever heard a loved one say this or something similar? Watching a family member or close friend's health decline is a difficult process and can be made even more stressful if he or she has not set up a health care power of attorney.

A health care power of attorney, also called a health care proxy or a durable power of attorney for health care, helps protect your loved one's end-of-life wishes. It is a document that appoints a trusted individual to make decisions regarding your loved one's medical care, and it typically becomes effective when he or she can no longer communicate effectively or coherently with others.

The person designated as the decision maker through a health care power of attorney, also known as an "agent," should be a trusted individual who knows the other's intentions and desires, including religious beliefs and has the ability and time to act on his or her behalf.

A health care agent can be given as much or as little power to oversee a person's health care wishes and make medical decisions as feels comfortable. However, some people give their health care agent comprehensive power to supervise their care.

Most states have unique health care power of attorney laws and due to potential conflicts of interest, most do not allow medical providers or their employees to be named as agents. Many states also have free health care power of attorney forms that you can download from their websites.

What Medical Wishes Can a Health Care Power of Attorney Cover?

What should you consider? If someone you love is considering a health care power of attorney, encourage them to look into the following items:

  • Does your loved one want aggressive health care measures or life-prolonging treatments in the event of a chronic and debilitating illness?

  • Does he or she want to be resuscitated in the event of heart failure or stopped breathing?

  • Are there any medical treatments to which he or she has a religious objection?

You can find additional information about how to handle this conversation in the Life Legacies section of℠.

How to Help Your Loved One Appoint a Health Care Power of Attorney

Many people do not like to consider the possibility that we may become incapacitated and unable to make our own decisions. When discussing the need for a health care power of attorney with your loved one it is important to be considerate, patient and not demanding.

Consider the following when discussing a health care power of attorney:

  • Make sure your loved one understands that your intent is to help them ensure that his or her wishes will be respected.

  • Suggest hiring an attorney to draft the document and explain the provisions so your loved one understands them and feels comfortable that they accurately reflect his or her desires.

Remember, a health care power of attorney can provide many benefits to all parties involved. The power of attorney gives individuals control of their affairs and ensures that they are handled as they wish when they can no longer make decisions for themselves. And family and friends will not have to second guess what their senior loved one would have wanted, which can lead to greater peace of mind knowing that their wishes are being fulfilled.

For additional information, you can also reach out to local counsel or visit to identify an attorney who can assist you. You can also explore this pre-planning checklist.

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  3. July 29, 2018 at 11:03 pm | Posted by Mahmoud Masad

    I'm a paid caregiver for my sister and whenever I want to talk to the insurance company, they tell me you can't be proxy and caregiver at the same time?


  4. February 26, 2016 at 10:15 pm | Posted by Connie W.

    I am my mothers POA and she is currently in a rehab in another state, the rehab continues to have my father signs papers regarding her care both medically and financially, do we have rights? thanks


  5. November 25, 2015 at 11:24 pm | Posted by Ann Louise Tisdale-Ramos

    But the question remains, died the person who is with the person with a medical power of attorney have the legal obligation to call for medical assistance or call for medical power if attorney to alert them of the person needing medical assistance. And largely that answer remains: no. If a spouse cannot be the medical power of attorney, s/he does not have a legal obligation to call his/her spouse's medical power if attorney and ask for car nor volunteer that she/he is not indeed the spouses medical power of attorney.


  6. March 26, 2015 at 2:50 am | Posted by Elizabeth Robson

    I am payed caregiver well respected 9yrs my patient needs a power. Of attorney she will have to pay. Along with me i asked the adult service. Worker. Why cant i be oiwer attorney. Iam on her will anyway she said its againt the for caregiver. To none caregiver paid caregiver in san leandro. Ca to be power. Attorney. But my patient can't. Afford. Any moreimoney to pay power. Attorney. Iam honest respected. Person. In comnerity i do all her bills now any way adult services had to to be calk on my patients stepdaughter for stalker plz


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